Sites
Barnabas International “We are committed to providing encouragement to God’s global servants through.
– Going: We travel to the fields of service to provide an “on sight” ministry of presence.
– Listening: We ask questions, taking time to listen to the servant’s story.
– Speaking: We minister the Word of God through preaching and teaching as pastoral care providers.
– Giving: We believe that encouragement is fundamentally a gift of grace.
See especially their Encouragement Online Magazine for relevant and timely articles
CARES (Canada)
Caring for Others
catalyst intl
Christian Encounter Ministry
Church Initiative
Core Member Care
Cross cultural workers.com “Having completed a career in teaching psychology at Asbury College, Dr. Ron Koteskey and his wife Bonnie are volunteering their time to provide mental health resources for cross-cultural workers around the world. As part of this service they have developed a series of brochures / articles, and written five e-books: “Coming Home”: The Re-entry Transition, We’re Going Home: Reentry for Elementary School Children (with a guide for parents), What Cross-Cultural Workers Ought to Know, one for parents titled Understanding Adolescence, and one for TCKs titled Third Culture Kids and Adolescence, Cultural Creations.”
Emmaus Road International
ESA Member Care
GlobalMemberCare.com Facebook group here
International Teams
International Training Partners
LinkCare Center
Misionessim.org (Member care resources in Spanish)
Mission to the World
Mission Training International
Missionary Care
Brochures
Missionary Care Database
Web Links
MK Connection
mrnet.org
OSCAR
Task Force for Member Care (MemCa) tons of articles and links
Articles
A Guide to Understanding and Coping with Compassion Fatigue
Evaluating Your Missionaries: When, Why And How
Missionary Care Through Care Teams
Missionary Care Through Short-Term Teams
Preparing for Re-entry by Dr Debbie Hawker 06/05
At .Missionary care.com see below or download the entire series (as well as the stewardship of self series) “The e-book is free and may be distributed to others as well.”
Topics Covered:
Adolescence & Youth
Anger
Aging Parents
Anxiety
Books on Missionary Care
Books For and About TCKs
Burnout
Children’s Adjustment
Comparison & Envy
Conflict
Coping with Change
Counseling
Culture Stress
Debriefing
Depression
Each Other
Expectations
Forgiveness
Grief
Guilt
Healing of Memories
Leadership
Loneliness New!
Maintaining Mental and Physical Health
Maintaining Sexual Purity
Managing Money
Member Care
Ministry Separation
Psychological Testing
Re-Entry
Reconciliation
Relationships
Retirement
Saying Goodbye
Sexual Abuse
Sexual Stress
Suffering New!
Suicide New!
Trauma
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At missionarycare.com database you can download their Missionary Care Database “This database may be searched online or downloaded for personal use. Following is a description of the database as well as information about its development, advantages, limitations, duplications and making suggestions.” (EXCELLENT)
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At Global Member Care Network (WEA)
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At Missions Resource Network (TONS of resources)
- Bibliographies & Book Reviews
- Furloughs
- General
- Carjacking: Don’t be a Victim (Web Link)
- Help for American Victims of Crime Overseas (Web Link)
- Hotel Safety: Staying Safe in Your Home Away from Home (Web Link)
- Important Domains of Missionary Development (Adobe PDF)
- Overseas Citizens’ Services (Web Link)
- Pre-Departure Health Training Handbook (Web Link)
- Safety Issues (Web Link)
- Security Awareness Overseas (Web Link)
- Security Guidelines for American Families Living Abroad (Web Link)
- Security Guidelines for Children Living Abroad (Web Link)
- Situational Awareness (Adobe PDF)
- Top Ten Ways to Not Become a Victim of Crime Around the World (Web Link)
- Why Do Missionary Care? (Adobe PDF)
- Links
- Local Church’s Role
- Accountability Questions for Missionaries (and others) (Adobe PDF)
- A Season of Transition for Returned Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- Avoid the Pitfalls (Adobe PDF)
- Career Transitions of Former Church of Christ Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- How to Care for Your Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- How to Pray for Your Missionaries Daily Through the Month (Adobe PDF)
- In Harm’s Way (Adobe PDF)
- Missionaries and Moral Failure (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Care (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Care Teams and Their Responsibilities (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Working Agreement Article (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Working Agreement Template (Adobe PDF)
- Ten Reasons Why Missionaries Leave the Field and Don’t Return (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Counseling Care
- Missionary Family
- Missionary Kids (MKs)
- Advantages of Being Third Culture Children (Adobe PDF)
- Living in Two Worlds (Adobe PDF)
- Research on Missionary Kids and Families: A Critical Review (Adobe PDF)
- Steps to Prevent, Recognize and Respond to Sexual Abuse of Missionary Kids (Web Link)
- The Importance of Caring for and Protecting Children on the Mission Field from Physical Abuse and Sexual Exploitation (Adobe PDF)
- Tips for Parents to Help Their Children Learn a New Language (Web Link)
- Missionary Salary and Benefits
- 2013 Compensation Report (Adobe PDF)
- Family Transitions: Adaptation to Stress (Adobe PDF)
- How Are We Going to Pay Our Medical Bills? (Adobe PDF)
- How to Save Your Returning Missionary from Financial Hardships (Adobe PDF)
- International Insurance and the Affordable Care Act (Web Link – information but not an endorsement by MRN)
- Missionary Working Agreement (Adobe PDF)
- When a Dollar is not a Dollar (Adobe PDF)
- On-Field Care
- Accountability Questions for Missionaries (and others) (Adobe PDF)
- Conflict Resolution Principles (Web Link)
- Emotional Needs of Women on Mission Field (Adobe PDF)
- How Churches Can Minister to Traumatized Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- How to Manage Culture Shock (Web Link)
- How to Pray for Your Missionaries Daily Through the Month (Adobe PDF)
- How Trauma Affects the Missionary (Adobe PDF)
- In the Presence of My Enemies (Adobe PDF)
- “I’ve Had Enough, Lord!” — The Care and Feeding of Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- Lessons Learned the Hard Way in Missions (Adobe PDF)
- Missionaries and Moral Failure (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Care (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Health Recommendations (Adobe PDF)
- Security and Missions (Adobe PDF)
- Terrorism and Missions (Adobe PDF)
- Re-Entry
- A Season of Transition for Returned Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- A Word to Parents Concerning Children’s Reentry (Adobe PDF)
- Back to School (Adobe PDF)
- Career Transitions of Former Church of Christ Missionaries (Adobe PDF)
- Coming Home (Adobe PDF)
- Guidelines for Reentry of the Foreign Missionary (Adobe PDF)
- Honor to Whom Honor (Adobe PDF)
- How Do You Communicate Your Mission Experience and Knowledge to the Church After Reentry (Adobe PDF)
- How to Save Your Returning Missionary from Financial Hardships (Adobe PDF)
- In the Presence of My Enemies (Adobe PDF)
- Missionary Reentry (Adobe PDF)
- Selection and Screening
At SENDu (Great site for tons of resources)
Dealing with the Busyness and Stress of Ministry
also See section on burnout on the Emotional Wellness page.
- Building Resilience in Hard Places
- Skimming:Stop trying to look good, and do the dirty work beneath the surface. Great article by Pete Scazzero from Leadership Journal.
- The Rest of God: Restoring Your Soul by Restoring Sabbath – book by Mark Buchanan. Recommended by Warren Janzen at 2009 Leadership Couples’ Orientation. Book summary. Buy on Amazon.
- Margin: Restoring Emotional, Physical, Financial, and Time Reserves to Overloaded Lives– book by Richard Swenson. Recommended by Eric Oldenburg.
- In Search of Balance: Keys to A Stable Life by Richard Swenson. Recommended by Eric Oldenburg.
- Survival Skills: What you need to minister with your spirit intact. An article by Pastor James Emory White, senior pastor of Mecklenburg Community Church
- Tyranny of the Urgent (5 Pack)– a little booklet by Charles Hummel. Sold by Amazon in a 5-pack.
- Review by David Mays of All Stressed Up and Everywhere to Go: Solutions to De-Stressing Your Life and Recovering Your Sanity by Gaylyn R. Williams and Ken Williams
- Review by David Mays of The Stress Effect: Why Smart Leaders Make dumb Decisions – And What to Do About It by Henry L. Thompson.
- CHOPS Inventory of Stressors – a chart where you can describe struggles, strategies and successes in several different categories of stressors
Books
At Cross cultural workers.com (FREE E-Books)
What Cross-Cultural Workers Ought to Know
“Coming Home:” The Reentry Transition
We’re Going Home: Reentry for Elementary Children
I Don’t Want to Go Home: Parent’s Guide for Reentry for Elementary Children
Understanding Adolescence
Third Culture Kids and Adolescence: Cultural Creations
At SENDu (Great site for tons of resources)
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- Books on member care issues by Ron & Bonnie Koteskey – 11 books on cross-cultural worker marriages, Third Culture kids, adolescence, re-entry – free downloads in PDF, Word, Kindle and epub formats.
- Where Is God When It Hurts? by Philip Yancy
- Trauma & Resilience: A Handbook- Effectively Supporting Those Who Serve God by Frauke & Charlie Schaefer, April 2015 (Barnabas International)
- World Evangelical Alliance resource books, free for download, including:
- Too Valuable to Lose: Exploring the Causes and Cures of Missionary Attrition – William Taylor. Recommended by Lazaro Pascual.
- Raising Resilient MKs: Resource for Caregivers, Parents & Teachers – Joyce Bowers
- Serving as Senders Today – by Neal Pirolo
- The Reentry Team: Caring for your returning missionaries – by Neal Pirolo
Austin, C. N. (1986). Cross-Cultural Reentry: A Book of Readings. Abilene Christian University Press.
Austin, Clyde N. 1986. Cross-Cultural Reentry: An Annotated Bibliography. Third Printing. Abilene, TX: ACU Press.
Bell, Linda G. 1997. Hidden Immigrants: Legacies of Growing Up Abroad. The West and Wider Series. Vol. XI. Notre Dame, IN: Cross Cultural Publications.
Bridges, W. (1980). Transitions. Making Sense of Life’s Changes. Addison-Wesley Publishing Company.
Bryson, Debra R. & Charise Hoge (2005). A Portable Identity: A Woman’s Guide to Maintaining a Sense of Self While Moving Overseas.(revised edition) Transition Press International.
Eidse, Faith & Nina Sichel (2004). Unrooted Childhoods: Memoirs of Growing Up Global. Nicholas Brealey Publishing.
Foyle, Marjory F. Honourably Wounded: Stress Among Christian Workers 1987 – 162 pages –
Gordon, Alma Daugherty (1993). Don’t Pig Out on Junk Food: The MKs guide to survival in the U.S. Evangelical Missions Information Services.
Greenbury, L. R. (1992). Portable Careers: Surviving Your Partner”s Relocation. Kogan Page Limited.
Greenwald, Dorothy (1987). Coping with Moving.Rosen Pub Group.
Hess, Melissa Brayer (2002). Expert Expatriate: Your Guide to Successful Relocation Abroad – Moving, Living, Thriving.Nicholas Brealey Publishing.
Iyer, P. (2000). The Global Soul. Jet Lag, Shopping Malls, and the Search for Home. Vintage Books.
Jehle-Caitcheon, Ngaire (2003). Parenting Abroad. Aletheia Publications.
Jordan, Peter (1992). Re-Entry: Making The Transition From Missions To Life At Home. YWAM Publishing.
Malewski, Margaret (2005). GenXpat: The Young Professional’s Guide To Making A Successful Life Abroad. Intercultural Press.
Marx, Elisabeth (1999) Breaking Through Culture Shock: What You Need to Succeed in International Business, Nicholas Brealey Publishing.
Melton, William R. (2005). The New American Expat: Thriving and Surviving Overseas in the Post-9/11 World. Intercultural Press.
Meltzer, G., & Grandjean, E. (1993). The Moving Experience: A Practical Guide to Psychological Matters. Multilingual Matters Ltd.
Miller, Susan (1998). After the Boxes Are Unpacked: Moving On After Moving In. Focus on the Family Publishing
Miller, Susan (2004). But Mom, I Don’t Want To Move!: Easing the Impact of Moving on Your Children . Focus on the Family Publishing
Nell, Marion. Burn Up Or Splash Down: Surviving The Culture Shock Of Re-Entry
O’donnell, Kelly. Doing Member Care Well
Pascoe, Robin (1992). Surviving Overseas: The Wife’s Guide to Successfully Living Abroad. Times Books International.
Pascoe, Robin (1994). Culture Shock! Successful Living Abroad – A Parent’s Guide. Time Books International.
Pascoe, Robin (2000). Homeward Bound. A Spouse’s Guide to Repatriation. Expatriate Press, Ltd.
Pascoe, Robin (2003). A Moveable Marriage: Relocate Your Relationship without Breaking It.Expatriate Press Limited.
Pascoe, Robin (2006). Raising Global Nomads: Parenting Abroad in an On-Demand WorldExpatriate Press Limited.
Jordan, Peter Re-Entry Publisher: YWAM Publishing
Piet-Pelon, N. J., & Hornby, B. (1992). Women’s Guide to Overseas Living. (2nd ed). Intercultural Press.
Pirolo, Neal (2000). The Reentry Team: Caring for Your Returning Missionaries. San Diego, California: Emmaus Road International.
Pirolo, Neal Serving As Senders (E-Book Version)
Pollock, D., & Van Reken, R. (1999). Third Culture Kids: Growing Up Among Worlds. Intercultural Press.
Rabe, Monica (1997). Culture Shock! Successful Living Abroad: Living and Working Abroad. Graphic Arts Center Publishing Company.
Roman, Beverly D. (2008) Relocation 101: Making the Most of Your Move. (rev. ed.) BR Anchor Publishing.
Roman, Beverly D. (2008). Home Away From Home: Turning Your International Relocation Into A Lifetime Enhancement(rev. ed.). BR Anchor Publishing.
Schubeck, Carol M., (1998). Let’s Move Together. SuitCase Press.
Seelye, H. N., & Wasilewski, J. H. (1996). Between Cultures. Developing Self-Identity in a World of Diversity. NTC Publishing Group.
Shepard, Steven (1997). Managing Cross Cultural Transition: A Handbook for Corporations, Employees and Their Families.Aletheia Publications.
Smith, C. D. (Ed.). (1996). Strangers at Home: Essays on the Effects of Living Overseas and Coming ‘Home’ To a Strange Land. Aletheia Publications.
Storti, C. (1990). The Art of Crossing Cultures. Intercultural Press.
Storti, C. (1997). The Art of Coming Home. Intercultural Press.
Taber, S. M. (1997). Of Many Lands. Journal of a Traveling Childhood. U.S. Foreign Service Youth Foundation.
Taylor, William. Too Valuable to Lose: Exploring the Causes and Cures of Missionary Attrition. Pasadena, California: William Carey Library, 1997. link to Too Valuable to lose book download)
Van Reken, R. (1988). Letters Never Sent. Cook Publishing Co.
Verwer, George Ten Reasons Missionaries Leave The Field And Don’t Return
Viorst, Judith (1998). Necessary Losses. Free Press
Walters, D. L. (1991). An Assessment of Reentry Issues of the Children of Missionaries. Vantage Press.
Werkman, Sidney L. (1977). Bringing Up Children Overseas: A Guide for Families. Basic Books.
Yehieli, Michele & Mark Grey (2006). Health Matters: A Pocket Guide for Working with Diverse Cultures and Underserved Populations. Intercultural Press.
Overcoming in the Struggle with Pornography (from SENDu)
- “A Care Team Approach to Healing and Restoration of Missionaries” by Steven Edlin
- I Surrender All: Rebuilding a Marriage Broken by Pornography by Clay & Renee Cross
- Your Brain on Porn – free e-book from Covenant Eyes
- Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker and Mike Yorkey
- The Addiction Bubble: The world within the fantasy – a presentation created by a recovering self-addict, now studying in seminary
- Setting Captives Free– recommended by Dave King
- Hooked: A Christian response to Porn Addiction – 1 hour video by Covenant Eyes
- Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain by William Struthers
- Closing the Window: Steps to Living Porn Free by Tim Chester
- Dirty Girls Come Clean by Crystal Renaud
- Sex and the Supremacy of God – free book in PDF format, edited by John Piper
- Missionary Marriage: Computer Sex or Me – recommended by the IO for all SEND missionaries
- Many, many more resourcesfrom Covenant eyes – for men, for ministry leaders, for wives, for women
- Internet Protection and Accountability software
- Covenant Eyes – SEND members can subscribe for half price
- X3watch – both free version and paid version – only accountability for free
- K9 Web Protection – filtering only, but its free
- OpenDns – a free filtering method for the more technically savvy.
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